Dua For Marriage Night

Dua For Marriage Night

allaahumma innee as’aluka khayrahaa, wa khayra maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh, wa a‛oodhu bika min sharrihaa, wa sharri maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh

When you marry a woman, say:

“O Allah, I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that you have made her inclined towards, and I seek refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that you have made her inclined towards.”

Fiqh of the First Night of Marriage

When the newly wed couple come into their bedroom, firstly salam should be made and the following dua should be read:

‘Allahumma in’ni as’a’luka min khai’riha wakhai’ri ma fiha wakhairi ma jabalta’ha alai wa a’udhu bika min shar’riha washar’ri ma fiha wa sharri ma jabalta’ha alai’

Tran: ‘O Allah I ask you for the good in her and the good with which you have created her, and I seek refuge in you from the evil in her and the evil with which you have created her’

(Bukhari, Abu Dawud, Ibn Maja, Al Hakim, Al Baihaqi and Abu Ya’la)

Then after making wudhu, two rakaats of Salatul’ Hajat must be performed, and dua be made for a good and happy life that Allah bestow them (the couple) with good and pious children.

Then they should engage themselves in some religious talk showing importance to the obedience of Allah’s commands and , through wisdom and tact, become more free and open in the discussion, trying to discover each other’s temperament. As sexual inclinations vary with every individual, the bride and the bridegroom will have to display patience with each other. Sexual union on the first night of marriage is not the most important thing between the couple. Their first intimate association gives them an opportunity to know each other more closely, to assess each other’s feelings and attitudes. With some brides excitement, expectations or fear of intimate union brings about a reluctance in performing sexual union.

The bridegroom should regard this moment as an opportunity to show his consideration for her tender feelings, to demonstrate that sex is a secondary aspect of marriage and that her health and feelings men more to him.

Sometimes, out of bashfulness or consideration for the brides feelings, the groom may also show reluctance to be sexually intimate. Then it is the bride’s turn to display her appreciation and tolerance towards him.

Arrival of a bride
Recite:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَّرَّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ
“O Allah, I seek the good in it from You and the goodness in the habit and character in her and seek refuge in You from her evil habits and character”.
Note: Recite the above dua whilst holding the forehead of the bride for Barakaat (blessings).
(Mishkat from Abu Dawood and Ibn Maja)

Congratulating the bridegroom
Recite:
بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكُمَا وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ
“May Allah grant you Barakaat (blessings) and descend His blessings on both of you and keep you united”.

Intention of having relation with wife
Recite:
بِسْمِ اللَّهِّ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
“I am having relations in the name of Allah. O Allah save us from Satan and keep him away from the children You grant us”. The child that is born after the recitation of this dua will never be harmed by Satan.

(Bukhari, Muslim)
Note: This dua must be read for if Allah’s name is not taken, the Satan’s sperm enters with the man’s (As in marginal notes of Hisnul Hasin)

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